You and your boyfriend got together awhile ago.
Things were great, but now after some time has passed…. you realize that you don’t really like your boyfriend.
Today we’re going to talk about what to do when you don’t like your boyfriend.
I dont like my boyfriend. What do I do? | Relationship Advice
So I’m going to be pretty straight to the point.
I find this topic interesting mainly because logically it doesn’t make sense to be with someone that you don’t like.
It’s kind of feel like you are wasting not only his time, but yours if you are with someone you don’t even like.. you know?
But we’re going to make all of the stops on what to do in this situation.
Evaluate why you don’t like them.
Are there minor things that bother you like they don’t rinse out their dishes in the sink or you don’t like when they put their stinky socks on you?
Or is it something serious where you can’t stand to hear their voice or you don’t like their personality?
Some minor things can be resolved by just talking to them about it.. but other things involving things that make up their whole being can’t be changed.
Why are you still with them?
Are you still dating them because you like the benefits of being with them?
Are you using them?
Are you with them out of convenience like you’re living in the same apartment?
Or do you have some hope that you can come to terms with minor issues?
Try to build a friendship with them.
A lot of times when relationships don’t work out 9 times out of 10 it’s because you two aren’t friends.
You two don’t take time to enjoy each other and connect.
You don’t take the time to truly bond on a mental connection or even emotional connection where you share interests.
Find some common ground with them by participating in activities with them like going bowling, playing board games, or just talking about different things.
Or just talk to them in general about how you’re feeling.
If you want to make things work, then talk to them.
Share with them certain things you’d like for you two to work on.
Or certain things that you don’t like that could be resolved.
Maybe the both of you could exchange things for each other to work on in general because they may have somethings that they don’t care for that you do either.
Talk it out and work on building your relationship.
If you don’t see a future with them, break up.
If you truly don’t see a future with the person you’re with.. it would be best for the both of you to just end things.
The time you two spend together could be time spent on doing something else or even time spent on meeting with someone better suited for the both of you.
Don’t waste their time or yours.
End things if you don’t see yourself being with them long term for years.
Overall if you don’t like the person you’re with you definitely need to evaluate why you’re even with this person.
Come to terms with it and realize the reason why you’re with them or even if you should stay with them.
Don’t be selfish and keep them around if you truly don’t want them.
If you’re feeling miserable.. let the relationship go.
You don’t want to end up being with someone and then 10 years down the line after you get married and have kids you’re finally honest with yourself about how you didn’t want this life with them.
Don’t lie to yourself if this isn’t the life you want to have and if this is the person you want to have it with.
Be honest and let it go.
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So that’s my two cents on “I don’t like boyfriend. What do I do about it?”
Have you guys ever been in this situation before?
Let me know in the comments down below!
