I have dated quite a few selfish guys.
It made me feel very sad and like they didn’t really care about me.
Today we’re going to talk about what makes a boyfriend selfish and how to deal with having a boyfriend that is selfish.
My boyfriend is selfish | Relationship Advice for dealing with a selfish boyfriend
6 signs your boyfriend is selfish
They don’t consider your feelings when it comes to things they should or shouldn’t be doing.
When you feel hurt or unhappy, they don’t acknowledge it.
They only think about themselves when it comes to making plans for almost anything.
They don’t include you in plans.
They don’t ask you about how you’re doing or your day almost at all.
They don’t think about things you like or things you’re interested in at all.
What to do when you have a selfish boyfriend
Share with him how you feel and don’t assume he is a mindreader.
A lot of times we may assume that the one we’re with just knows what we want or that they should know how to treat us.
Take the time to talk with them about how you feel and what makes you feel like they don’t think about you or consider your feelings.
Now if they ignore what you’re saying or belittle it, run.
If you end up constantly having to tell your boyfriend how you feel and nothing changes..
Or if they consistently ignore your feelings and do whatever they want, they honestly won’t change.
They are who they are regardless if you are unhappy or with them or not.
You may have to just let the situation go and just find someone who isn’t selfish.
That’s just the truth of the matter.
I know I dated a couple of selfish people and thought they’d change, but they didn’t and I ended up wasting a lot of time with them as well as experiencing a lot of heartache.
It’s just easier to let them go and find someone who will treat you right in general.
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So that’s my 2 cents on having a selfish boyfriend.
Now it’s time for you guys to chime in…
Have you ever had a selfish boyfriend?
Let me know in the comments below!
